At this time most people take the opportunity to reflect on the achievements made throughout the year and to consider new goals, goals and challenges for the coming year, however, few people are happy to make their annual balance. With the passing of the months, our goals become distant and unattainable and we abandon them while we remain submerged in the routine of the day to day.
Top 10 Reasons Why People Never Achieve Success
Here are top 10 reasons why people do not get what they want. Take note and avoid making the same mistakes each year. Why do not most people get what they want?
- They do not really know what they want
As long as you do not set yourself the task of accurately defining your goals and setting dates to achieve them, these will be nothing more than illusions.
It is true that the vast majority of us want to be successful from different points of view, but you have to look at what’s inside you and specifically define what kind of life you really want to live. Write your goals. It is proven that when you write your goals, significantly increase the chances of you meet them. Writing or drawing your goals will create a commitment to them.
- They are too clingy to their Comfort zone
The vast majority of people remain immersed in comfort zones full of situations they do not enjoy, but they ended up accepting simply because they got used to them.
Whenever you try to do something that represents a risk or energy expenditure for your brain, you will hear a voice that will tell you things like, “This is how you are doing”, “What if it does not work?”, “How many people wanting to have your Employment and you complaining ” … and many other phrases that prevent you from giving up the good to go after the great. Everything you want to achieve is out of your comfort zone. Dare to try something new, overcome your limits, rise and go after your most fervent wishes.
- They prefer to make Excuses what Results
You will always have a good excuse to continue postponing your dreams: lack of time, lack of money, lack of knowledge, lack of experience, etc. Sometimes we spend more time and energy looking for excuses, than looking for ways to do things. Turn your excuses into your inspiration. When you stop looking for excuses, you will begin to find results.
- Do not have strong Enough Motivations
Find a purpose that makes you jump out of bed every morning. Discover what makes you beat the heart faster and makes you feel like eating the world. When you’re “Why” and “Why” are strong, you have more energy to achieve your dreams.
- They rely more on the opinions of others than on their own Abilities
You will always have people around you criticizing and advising you, but in the end you are the only one who knows what is best for you. When you stop caring about what they will say, you will be ready for success. Believe in your ideas and your abilities enough to take action and start being the protagonist of your own life.
- They are not willing to pay the price of going after their dreams
The world is full of people who want to pick fruits from trees they have never sown. The truth is that great achievements require great sacrifices. The way to your dreams is full of stones, ups and downs that are there to test your determination and to help you grow as a person.
- They only want immediate results
It may take several years before you begin to enjoy the fruits of your effort. There will be days when your goal will seem unattainable and you will feel a tremendous desire to surrender. But, generally, nothing worthwhile is achieved overnight. You must be patient and persist until you achieve it.
- Give up before you achieve it
The vast majority of people falls at the first obstacle or get tired halfway … but, you are not like most. If you really want to achieve your dreams, you must be willing to get up as many times as necessary. Each fall is an opportunity to learn and try again with more strength and intelligence. If you feel tired, rest! But do not give up.
- Their actions are not congruent with their desires
Every day is an opportunity to work for your dreams that is why you should try to get your actions closer to them. Analyze your habits and customs to verify that you are really moving towards the place where you want to go. Check out the books you read the people around you and how you are investing your time.
- They work hard, but not Smartly
You may be working hard, but over the course of days you are filled with frustration when you see that the results you get are not what you expect. Working Smart means: working on the right thing, prioritize, take advantage of technology, know how to delegate, work as a team and focus. Getting started is not about how many hours you work, but about what results you are getting.