The father of psychoanalysis chased that “dreams are the royal rout to reality”. Means any men or a women can take dream as their first ladder to success. Dreams are truly like imaginations. We imagines/dreamt goals, find source, uncovers the objects of help, and works with impetus, and thus gives a true destines to our dreams. So, the hierarchy that can convert our dreams in to reality will be like:
HIERARCHY OF CONVERTING DREAMS IN TO REALITY
- Dreamt/imagine goals
- Finds source
- Uncover the objects of helps
- Works with impetus or greatest potential & strive
- Gives true destination to dreams = SUCCESS
So what is to confront you that “your dreams can be your reality”? Dream is not only a bogus phony thing that can only be seen in dramas, films, and or in life of a kid. It can be your imperial itinerary to reality. Dreams can make your destination true.
But with misfortune, many of the times we see the shattering of our dreams. Every man consider it’s his or her right to see the dreams but many of people with low self-esteem let them break on to their way. They feel they are not strong enough to give reality to your dreams. Such people often seem to be on edge of the success only! The good reason is their lack of confidence, low self-esteem, and inability to cash their dreams and so on. With a common matter of fact, here are few negative thoughts that can shatter your dreams and thus can stop you “to be” of what you “can be”:
- I Can’t Compete
In the present digital globe, for sure the competition is at top. If you go in the market, and buy an ordinal pen still you gets about ten to fifteen varieties to choose among them. Many people get afraid of this “competition”. They feels, they are not enough competent to battle against the people better than them.
This lack of confidence is really common in every second man. About 50% of people among us work on the “cognitive error” of “minimization and maximization”. They keep on less weighing their qualities and they carry on maximizing their pitfalls and mistakes. They don’t realize it’s all the game of cognitive error. It is their faulty perception and nothing else. So, “I can’t compete” is one of the big rolling thoughts that can make a person a rolling stone.
- I have ‘not Enough Information
If you look at most of the competitive positions like business, politics, and armed forces & so on, you will find “general knowledge as a “helping stick to climb-up on and on”. General knowledge in any of the running field can be helping. It can open the multiple route of success for you. But most of the people create this negative thought in their mind that their information about specific filed is low, and they can’t fulfill their golden dreams. But keep in mind! It’s a bogus excuse and nothing else. This time is the time of machine. So, if you don’t have knowledge then cash it through various digital devices and services like Computer, internet and television. Being furnished with up-to-dates is a tremendous way of cashing the dreams.
- I can’t leave the loop of realism
Come to know! There is a borderline between what your dream is and what reality is. Reality can never be your dream, but your dreams can convert in to reality. So, be sharp and leave the loop of realism. You have power to convert your dream line in to realism line. If you will move on the myth of “keeping in realism is socialism” then you will find your dreams to be shattered.
- Forget People Perception
It is one of the biggest negative and irrational thought on which most of the people keep on focusing. When you will start focusing on “what others will perceive” then you will lose your true identity. Keep in mind! You can never satisfy other people. So, dig your own route, make them golden and motivate others on what you dig. The thought of others will shatter your dreams only.
- Time is short
The one of the biggest loophole in the thinking pattern of people is about time. Many unsuccessful people think they have lack of time. They remain unable to manage time for multiple goals. And such mis-managements of time show them a great dumb thumb. So, remove this negative thought of “time shortage”. Every man has equal ticks of 24 hours/day. So, wisdom is to utilize them wisely instead of complaining its shortage.
- Fear of Competition
Many people withdraw their hands from particular goal with a thought “it is not unique as it has already been done in the market”. It is a foolish thought. Being new is not the only the way to uniqueness. You can also bring novelty to existing things as well. So, break this negative thoughts, learn from the experiences of others rather of making your own life as “experience”.
So, be wise, it’s the time to break the negative thoughts and to give reality to your dreams. Give your dreams a true destination by breaking these negative thoughts.